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Post by fluffysmom on Feb 22, 2014 21:22:54 GMT -5
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Post by lyns on Feb 23, 2014 2:31:12 GMT -5
terry, welcome....but I have to disagree with you. If EJ just "can't get enough of Abby" then why is he NEVER the one to track her down for one of these trysts (first time doesn't count as I think we can all agree he would have never looked for her at the cabin if it hadn't been for that idiot Gabi)? If their bond is so irresistible, why isn't he showing up at her house & her work for a quickie? Why is she always the one who initiates. He's being a very stupid man thinking with the wrong "head" but I think she's nothing more than sex and an ego boost after Sami kicked him out of her bed. I don't think he would have looked at her twice otherwise. No judging or anything, but I'm curious as to why you think they "work on every level"? I've never seen them to share any common interests, activities, habits, or friends (other than the whole "my brother deflowered you" thing  ). They are two beautiful people but beauty & sex won't really carry you very far in a relationship (see his history with Nicole & Taylor). Again, not trying to jump on you for your opinion, I'm just genuinely curious why you think that. :-)
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Post by terry on Feb 23, 2014 10:50:37 GMT -5
I will tell you why? Simply put because their chemistry just continues to show whenever they have one of these trysts as you so put it but at the same time EJ you can say he is happy with Sami but at the same time nowadays I would definitely say that he is not happy with her because he can say it all he wants that he loves her and that he is happy with her but if he really loved Sami if he really wants to be with her for the rest of his life if he is really happy with her then he would have never have cheated on Sami in the first place much less with Abby or any other woman for that matter no matter how much Sami pushed him away
At least with Abby there is no baggage no drama no history, it is something that's new something that is not complicated and not to mention with Abby there are no expectations either
Even though she initiates EJ isn't exactly pushing her away either especially if he continues to sleep with her time and time again because that if anything shows me that he just isn't into Abby for sex and that deep down on some unconscious level he has feelings for Abby because if he didn't then he wouldn't continue to sleep with her now would he?
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Post by fluffysmom on Feb 23, 2014 10:58:40 GMT -5
I don't think Sami and EJ would be together right now if it weren't for the kids. He seems exhausted by rescuing Sami from all of her troubles lately. It may have been exciting in the past. But now EJ seems tired of it.
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Post by terry on Feb 23, 2014 11:03:02 GMT -5
I don't think Sami and EJ would be together right now if it weren't for the kids. He seems exhausted by rescuing Sami from all of her troubles lately. It may have been exciting in the past. But now EJ seems tired of it. Exactly my point, exactly my point and because of that EJ may be falling out of love with Sami and in love with Abby the more he is around her and the more he ends up cheating with her |
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Post by Kpatch on Feb 23, 2014 18:24:09 GMT -5
I like Abby and EJ for the short term. I'm not sure about their long-term potential though.
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Post by terry on Feb 23, 2014 18:49:08 GMT -5
I think Abby definitely has long-term potential with EJ but only if they are written properly sorta speak
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Post by DancingDays on Feb 24, 2014 9:54:57 GMT -5
I like Abby and EJ for the short term. I'm not sure about their long-term potential though. I like them sneaking around and doing it in closets and on desks and right under Sami's nose. But I do not see any long-term potential for them. I'm not sure I see long-term potential for EJ with anyone except himself. Sami too (obviously with herself). |
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Post by wendylou on Feb 24, 2014 10:45:31 GMT -5
I think in any long-term relationship you're going to obviously have baggage and problems as time goes on, that's inevitable. That's why it's so hard to make it long term - it's work. New relationships are much easier. Abby's young and doesn't have kids or many past relationships. If they are together long enough there will be plenty of problems and baggage to work through, starting with the fact that their relationship began as an infidelity (you think Abby would feel secure that he wouldn't do the same thing to her later?).
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Post by terry on Feb 24, 2014 12:59:59 GMT -5
I guess I could see your point
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Post by lyns on Feb 24, 2014 13:17:37 GMT -5
If he'll cheat WITH you, then he'll cheat ON you. I've seen it happen far too many times. I worked as a bartender for a few years and, sadly, I was witness to more drama than you'd ever find on a soap opera. I saw a lot of guys cheat on wives simply because a "hot piece of tail" threw herself at him, never saw them leave their wives for "the slut" though. Guys in general don't respect girls who make themselves available for "whenever, wherever." I just honestly don't see this going anywhere other than Abigail going off the rails again & probably ruining EJ & Sami's wedding. Chemistry isn't enough for a strong, lasting relationship. As soon as Abigail found out about one of EJ's nefarious plots, she'd be outraged & leave. Plus she'll cave to being a "Horton" as soon as everyone found out & put pressure on her. |
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Post by terry on Feb 24, 2014 14:24:37 GMT -5
If he'll cheat WITH you, then he'll cheat ON you. I've seen it happen far too many times. I worked as a bartender for a few years and, sadly, I was witness to more drama than you'd ever find on a soap opera. I saw a lot of guys cheat on wives simply because a "hot piece of tail" threw herself at him, never saw them leave their wives for "the slut" though. Guys in general don't respect girls who make themselves available for "whenever, wherever." I just honestly don't see this going anywhere other than Abigail going off the rails again & probably ruining EJ & Sami's wedding. Chemistry isn't enough for a strong, lasting relationship. As soon as Abigail found out about one of EJ's nefarious plots, she'd be outraged & leave. Plus she'll cave to being a "Horton" as soon as everyone found out & put pressure on her. If EJ loved Sami then he would have never have cheated on her now would he? Because deep down on some level EJ he isn't as in love with Sami as he claims to admit because if he were then not only would he have never have cheated on Sami with Abby but he wouldn't be carrying on with Abby but instead would be working things out with Sami or he would have the moment she kicked him out of their bed rather than turning to someone else |
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Post by wendylou on Feb 24, 2014 14:32:31 GMT -5
If he'll cheat WITH you, then he'll cheat ON you. I've seen it happen far too many times. I worked as a bartender for a few years and, sadly, I was witness to more drama than you'd ever find on a soap opera. I saw a lot of guys cheat on wives simply because a "hot piece of tail" threw herself at him, never saw them leave their wives for "the slut" though. Guys in general don't respect girls who make themselves available for "whenever, wherever." I just honestly don't see this going anywhere other than Abigail going off the rails again & probably ruining EJ & Sami's wedding. Chemistry isn't enough for a strong, lasting relationship. As soon as Abigail found out about one of EJ's nefarious plots, she'd be outraged & leave. Plus she'll cave to being a "Horton" as soon as everyone found out & put pressure on her. If EJ loved Sami then he would have never have cheated on her now would he? Because deep down on some level EJ he isn't as in love with Sami as he claims to admit because if he were then not only would he have never have cheated on Sami with Abby but he wouldn't be carrying on with Abby but instead would be working things out with Sami or he would have the moment she kicked him out of their bed rather than turning to someone else I have to disagree with you on that. Sadly, I think a LOT of people cheat on someone they love, for lots of reasons. It doesn't make it okay and it doesn't make it hurt any less but lots of people give in to temptation. |
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Post by lyns on Feb 24, 2014 14:37:56 GMT -5
terry, honey I personally know guys who cheated on wives that they love very much, and years later are still with. Crap happens in adult relationships. I've also known women who cheated on husbands they love, and wives who took cheating husbands back. People, especially guys, can have sex with someone without having deep, romantic feelings for them or wanting a relationship with that person. I know people who had "booty calls" with a particular person for years without ever having relationships. Oh, and if EJ giving up everything he stole from Stefano after months of planning just to save Sami isn't a sign of love, I don't know what is.
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). They are two beautiful people but beauty & sex won't really carry you very far in a relationship (see his history with Nicole & Taylor). Again, not trying to jump on you for your opinion, I'm just genuinely curious why you think that. :-)
